If you do not enjoy your everyday moments and constantly escaping from your unwanted (boring, tiring, stressing)"reality" you are creating a trap for yourself and your life becomes an endless rollercoaster and it will drag you down sooner or later.
When I work with people it is quiet common that they use the following phrase usually on their last days of vacation: "...okay... now, it's time to go back to reality...".
In most cases they do not prefer what they do in their "normal life", they do not enjoy it.
They create significant differences between their "normal" and "abnormal (holiday mode)" life.
it also applies to your days and weeks
“When you cannot wait to finish work and have a glass of drink, or a spliff to numb your brain because you spent your day with what you don't like and with those who you do not prefer to stay with then it should be alarming..."
But you will not realising that the alarm went off because you have learned and accepted that this is how life works, and accepted as normal. It might be normal for you but it is not natural. The result will be very obvious... tiredness, boredom, burning out, illnesses, pain and suffering. But again... you will think this is how life is and it needs to be this way BUT it DOES NOT'
This is what I have been doing with people for more than 10 years now. We re-discover their true self, changing their concepts about life and help them to realise how life works so they can connect the dots by themselves.
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